I haven't written in a long time. Life has been passing me by really fast. I am confused , sad and miserable , the combination of emotions which have usually prompted me to write in the past.
On the outside my life seems to be perfect, I am married recently, among the first few people to get married in my college to the most amazing guy I ever met in my life.I am completely hopelessly and madly in love with him and my wedding was something straight out of my dreams.
When I met S online, everything seemed perfect. We fell for each other really fast and i still know he is so right for me.When we got married , I felt as if all my life was building up to this event.I felt that life was perfect - like all my life i had been waiting to meet this guy and I thought that now my life was going to be a fairy tale with a happily ever after ending.
Why is it that in fairy tales , they never ever talk about life after marriage.Why is wedding considered to be the end of all romantic stories.?!!? As a girl who has already had that, I wanna talk about this side of life-- a story of my life after marraige -- a tale of how things turn out after I have had my happily ever after..
I always knew there were going to be complications and hardships in marriage. All my then married friends warned me of that..But I never took them seriously... I thought my life was going to be different. Like the wedding was the magic wand which would suddenly transform my life. I would be transformed into a princess from cinderella. It was very late by the time I realized that it is happening the other way around. I was a happy, only child of my parents who have provided me with all luxuries in life. I was already a princess.!!!!
Anyway more of that later , the reason I started writing this blog is because , writing is like my therapy. I get to sort out my thoughts and think clearly when i write. So I have decided to start writing again for the umpteenth time in my life. Nothing Serious-- Just a lighter look at Life after Marriage.
On the outside my life seems to be perfect, I am married recently, among the first few people to get married in my college to the most amazing guy I ever met in my life.I am completely hopelessly and madly in love with him and my wedding was something straight out of my dreams.
When I met S online, everything seemed perfect. We fell for each other really fast and i still know he is so right for me.When we got married , I felt as if all my life was building up to this event.I felt that life was perfect - like all my life i had been waiting to meet this guy and I thought that now my life was going to be a fairy tale with a happily ever after ending.
Why is it that in fairy tales , they never ever talk about life after marriage.Why is wedding considered to be the end of all romantic stories.?!!? As a girl who has already had that, I wanna talk about this side of life-- a story of my life after marraige -- a tale of how things turn out after I have had my happily ever after..
I always knew there were going to be complications and hardships in marriage. All my then married friends warned me of that..But I never took them seriously... I thought my life was going to be different. Like the wedding was the magic wand which would suddenly transform my life. I would be transformed into a princess from cinderella. It was very late by the time I realized that it is happening the other way around. I was a happy, only child of my parents who have provided me with all luxuries in life. I was already a princess.!!!!
Anyway more of that later , the reason I started writing this blog is because , writing is like my therapy. I get to sort out my thoughts and think clearly when i write. So I have decided to start writing again for the umpteenth time in my life. Nothing Serious-- Just a lighter look at Life after Marriage.
